Getting Diagnosed With Autism As an Older Teen Or Young Adult

What happens when a diagnosis of autism is delayed or overlooked for autistic teenagers or adults?

Ideally, all autistic kids would get diagnosed as young as possible, hopefully by age three years or younger.

“The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that children be screened for general development using standardized, validated tools at 9, 18, or 30 months and for autism at 18 and 24 months or whenever a parent or provider has a concern.”

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That way they can start therapy or get accomodations, if necessary, as soon as possible.

Getting Diagnosed With Autism As an Older Teen Or Young Adult

Unfortunately, even with increased awareness and screening, some children aren’t diagnosed until they are much, much older.

“ASD can sometimes be detected at 18 months or younger. By age 2, a diagnosis by an experienced professional can be considered very reliable. However, many children do not receive a final diagnosis until much older. Some people are not diagnosed until they are adolescents or adults. This delay means that children with ASD might not get the early help they need.”

Screening and Diagnosis of Autism Spectrum Disorder

In fact, even though children can often be reliably diagnosed with autism at 18 months, when they are typically first routinely screened with the M-CHAT, many still aren’t diagnosed until they are about 4 years old.

The Autism Spectrum Quotient (AQ) Adolescent has screening questions for teens between the ages of 12 to 15 years.
The Autism Spectrum Quotient (AQ) Adolescent has screening questions for teens between the ages of 12 to 15 years.

And surprisingly, some aren’t diagnosed until they are much older, sometimes when they are adults.

“Yes, adults can be diagnosed with an ASD. Diagnosis includes looking at the person’s medical history, watching the person’s behavior, and giving the person some psychological tests. But, it can be more challenging to diagnose an adult because it is not always possible to know about the person’s development during the first few years of life, and a long history of other diagnoses may complicate an ASD diagnosis. Because the focus of ASD has been on children, we still have much to learn about the prevalence and causes of ASD across the lifespan. Behavioral interventions can be effective for adults coping with a new diagnosis of autism.”

Autism Spectrum Disorder Frequently Asked Questions

How do you screen or diagnose an older child, teen, or adult with autism?

“Parents may talk with these specialists about their child’s social difficulties including problems with subtle communication. These subtle communication issues may include problems understanding tone of voice, facial expressions, or body language. Older children and adolescents may have trouble understanding figures of speech, humor, or sarcasm. Parents may also find that their child has trouble forming friendships with peers.”

Autism Spectrum Disorder

Although the same developmental monitoring and screening tools that are available for toddlers (M-CHAT and ASQ-10) aren’t used for older children, teens, or young adults, others are available, including:

If you have any concerns, your pediatrician, a child psychologist, or a psychiatrist might use one of these questionnaires to screen your child.

Autistic Teenagers & Adults

So what happens when an autism diagnosis is delayed?

“Among the responses were many from people who didn’t get diagnosed until they were adults. Some had suspicions about their condition growing up. For others, the diagnosis was a revelation as much as it was a relief.”

When An Autism Diagnosis Comes In Adulthood

For one thing, you hopefully quickly understand that you are not alone, which becomes easier as you read the stories of other adult diagnosed autistic people.

“If you know you’re autistic, are beginning to wonder, share similarities with autistic people, or want to support an adult autistic friend or family member—or if you simply want to know why it’s so important that autistic adults know we’re autistic—this book is for you.”

Knowing Why: Adult-Diagnosed Autistic People on Life and Autism

And you learn that support is available if you need it, no matter what stage of life you are in, whether you are in high school, starting college, looking for a job, or getting married, etc.

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Autistic Adults

Autistic adults are easy to find if you choose to look for them, instead of blindly believing in an autism epidemic associated with vaccines.

A common argument for those who believe in a true autism epidemic that is associated with vaccines is that there are no autistic adults.

“Where are all the adults with classic autism? Where are the hand flapping, head banging, self-abusive, spinning, screaming, rocking, stimming, non-verbal and violent 40, 50, 60, 70, 80 and 90 year olds wearing autism helmets and diapers? Where are the grown-ups at the mall experiencing violent tantrums, seizures and GI tract problems?”

Robert F Kennedy, Jr on Is the Autism Epidemic Real?

Of course, the argument is easy is disprove.

Kennedy on Classic Autism

The worst part of Kennedy’s statement is how he chooses to define “classic autism.”

“Functioning labels do not always relate to people’s real skills and can be based on hurtful stereotypes about autistic people. They also assume that people’s skills cannot change over time.”

Finn Gardiner on The Problems with Functioning Labels

Considering that he has also used the term holocaust when talking about autism, it’s not a surprise though.

“We all deserve to be respected for who we are.”

Amy Sequenzia on It is About Respect

But we shouldn’t let folks like Robert F Kennedy, Jr define what autism is for everyone.

Autistic Adults

What’s the first clue that there are autistic adults?

Yes, that’s right, it is all of the autistic adults!

Did you know that the Autistic Children’s Aid Society of North London formed in 1962? It later became the The National Autistic Society.

And the first meeting of the National Society of Autistic Children was held in 1965. It became the Autism Society of America.

Around this time, the Sybil Elgar School (1965) was established as the first school for autistic children and Somerset Court (1972) was established as the first residential community for autistic adults.

Think about Kennedy’s claim. Are we to believe that we have no autistic adults now, but in 1972, there was a need for a residential community for autistic adults?

Also consider that the children diagnosed with autism by DSM-III criteria (1980) are now adults, as that was almost 40 years ago.

Some folks, like Robert F Kennedy, Jr, would likely be surprised that autistic adults published a book to help autistic teens and adults go to college.
Some folks will likely be surprised to know that autistic adults published a book to help autistic teens and adults go to college. They shouldn’t be!

Where are the autistic adults?

They are easily found, if you choose to look for them.

Like everyone else, many of them are:

And sure, some have more issues than others. Some are living at home or in supported living arrangements, too many live in poverty, and tragically, too many die young.

That’s why it is important that we all do more to support autistic children, autistic adults, and their families, instead of continuing to believe these folks who push propaganda about vaccines.

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